Chosen & Cherished review
Chosen & Cherished has grown 35% between 24 Aug 2026 and 2 Nov 2026, by its published member count. It is free to join, with paid tiers inside.
A review on the numbers, not an opinion: nobody here has joined Chosen & Cherished, and nothing below is a verdict.
Chosen & Cherished is a Skool community for couples who want a healthier marriage, run by couples therapist and relationship coach Jonathan Van Viegen.[1][2] It takes its name from his Chosen & Cherished Method, a framework for rebuilding trust, emotional safety, intimacy and connection that rests on honesty, loyalty, transparency, fidelity and commitment.[3][4] The Skool group was created in November 2025.[1]
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- Members
- 589
- Published price
- Free to join, paid tiers inside
- Members, last 32 days
- +39
- 1 Oct 2026 to 2 Nov 2026
- Rank by members
- #2,756
- of 6,074 sellers listed here
- Size rank in niche
- #30
- of 73 sellers listed in dating and relationships, by published members
- Check the Course score
- 80
- B+, strong
- Niche
- Dating and relationships
- 78 listed here
- Created
- 21 Nov 2025
- Skool publishes this date
- Readings
- 12
- since 24 Aug 2026
About Chosen & Cherished
Members take part in marriage challenges, live workshops and coaching, practical trainings and Meredith's Women's Circle.[1] The group also hosts the pre-order experience for Van Viegen's book Choosing Us, with bonuses and events attached.[1][4] Its lessons cover communicating without doing more harm, handling conflict in new ways, restoring trust and emotional safety, closing distance, and strengthening intimacy and friendship.[1]
Van Viegen founded The Van Viegen Institute, a relationship education and personal development company working through coaching, courses, workshops, speaking, digital media, books and live events.[3][4] Its range includes private and group coaching and a do-it-yourself Relationship Reboot, and it publishes a weekly email, The Chosen & Cherished Letter.[3][4] He describes himself as a registered psychotherapist.[4] On his YouTube channel he introduces himself as a couples therapist who believes "connection beats chemistry, every time", and its videos focus on rebuilding trust and desire between partners.[5] He has also appeared as a podcast guest to discuss emotional dysregulation in relationships, and that episode's notes give 2026 as the year his book reaches stores.[2]
Sources
- Skool listing: skool.com/chosen-cherished-club, as collected 24 Sept 2026
- Press: podcast.thebirthlounge.com, retrieved 30 Sept 2026
- Official website: jonathanvanviegen.com, retrieved 30 Sept 2026
- Official website: jonathanvanviegen.com/about, retrieved 30 Sept 2026
- YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UCq9LT34KZtR03bFElWw7GRg, retrieved 30 Sept 2026
Compiled by Check the Course from the sources listed, to the best of our ability.
Read from the listing’s own words: what is offered, never how well.
What is inside
Counts published by Chosen & Cherished on its own page, read on 2 Nov 2026: how much is included, never how good it is. Listed as run by jonathan-van-viegen-3136.
This community is free to join, with paid tiers inside. The readings record the free join price, not the prices of the paid tiers, so no ceiling is calculated.
Against the dating and relationships niche
Percentile among the other 77 dating and relationships listings here, each seller counted once for size.
Ahead of 80% of the 13,588 Skool communities we track, including ones without a page here, on the measures below, each read from a figure Chosen & Cherished published itself.
- Size 53% of the scoreahead of 71%
- Growth 27% of the scoreahead of 87%
- Track record 20% of the scoreahead of 34%
An algorithmic position among tracked listings: not an endorsement, a guarantee or advice. How the score works.
Net member count up 35% between our first reading, on 24 Aug 2026, and our latest, on 2 Nov 2026.
Run this community?
Evidence and signals
Tracked over time
12 observations over 69 days.
Observation log
| Observed | Members | Change | Price | Ceiling / month |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2 Nov 2026 | 589 | +13 | Free + paid tiers | Not calculated |
| 29 Oct 2026 | 576 | +5 | Free + paid tiers | Not calculated |
| 25 Oct 2026 | 571 | +3 | Free + paid tiers | Not calculated |
| 21 Oct 2026 | 568 | +3 | Free + paid tiers | Not calculated |
| 17 Oct 2026 | 565 | +2 | Free + paid tiers | Not calculated |
| 13 Oct 2026 | 563 | +2 | Free + paid tiers | Not calculated |
| 9 Oct 2026 | 561 | +10 | Free + paid tiers | Not calculated |
| 5 Oct 2026 | 551 | +1 | Free + paid tiers | Not calculated |
| 1 Oct 2026 | 550 | +35 | Free + paid tiers | Not calculated |
| 24 Sept 2026 | 515 | +66 | Free + paid tiers | Not calculated |
| 2 Sept 2026 | 449 | +13 | Free + paid tiers | Not calculated |
| 24 Aug 2026 | 436 | Free + paid tiers | Not calculated | |
| Average per week, last 32 days1 Oct 2026 to 2 Nov 2026 | +9 | |||
| Average per week, since first reading24 Aug 2026 to 2 Nov 2026 | +16 | |||
Milestones observed
| Members | Crossing | Between readings |
|---|---|---|
| 500 | Passed | 2 Sept 2026 and 24 Sept 2026 |
Seller’s followers on other platforms
| Read, about monthly | YouTube | TikTok |
|---|---|---|
| 16 Oct 2026 | 1,540-21,460 | |
| 16 Sept 2026 | 23,000 |
Course content readings
| Observed | Posts | Modules | Courses |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 Nov 2026 | 150+5 | 51+1 | 39 |
| 25 Oct 2026 | 145+3 | 50 | 39 |
| 17 Oct 2026 | 142+19 | 50+3 | 39+4 |
| 16 Sept 2026 | 123 | 47 | 35 |
| Added per week16 Sept 2026 to 2 Nov 2026 | +4.0 | +0.6 | +0.6 |
Common questions about Chosen & Cherished
- What is Chosen & Cherished?
- Chosen & Cherished is a Skool community for couples who want a healthier marriage, run by couples therapist and relationship coach Jonathan Van Viegen.
- How much does Chosen & Cherished cost?
- Chosen & Cherished is free to join on Skool, with paid tiers inside, read 2 Nov 2026.
- How many members does Chosen & Cherished have?
- Chosen & Cherished lists 589 members, read 2 Nov 2026.
- How has Chosen & Cherished's membership changed?
- From 436 members on 24 Aug 2026, our first reading, to 589 on 2 Nov 2026: up 153, or 35%.
- How does Chosen & Cherished compare with other dating and relationships communities?
- The niche median is 418 members. Pricing benchmarks by niche.
- What do you get inside Chosen & Cherished?
- Chosen & Cherished publishes 51 course modules, 39 courses, 150 posts, 3 admins. Communities with the most course content.
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